BDSM Mind and Body

What is the BDSM connection between Mind and Body?

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Sexy blonde Carly Rae in interracial bondage and domination at ShadowSlaves.com

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Controlled orgasm, reverse reflexology, the ability to turn pain into pleasure – what triggers it for you? Can subs be taught how to do it? CanĀ Dominants learn how to teach them?

Apart from the hands and the imagination, floggers are probably the most commonly used item in the BDSM toolbox. And it’s the area of S/M that we often take for granted. After all, if you can’t hit someone effectively, then what kind of Top or Dom are you?

But the truth is, hitting someone effectively requires great skill, and lots of practice. Because the key word is “effectively”. What effect are you intending to have, and are you using the right piece of equipment, in the right way, to achieve it?

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